No one can help a person get over their ex-husband/ex-wife.
Reply While I am currently experiencing number three on your list of what not to do, "Rewrite history", by imagining that everything was always cheery, I find that my wife is experiencing number three in reverse. deep down i want this to work out and the truth is she and i are severly not right for each other. She no longer speaks to anyone from her past it's like she has a new life at 42 , I think she has gone insane Reply My world crunbled about 6 months ago when my (now ex) wife told me she wanted a divorce. Reply My divorce was finalized at the end of January, though we split of up 3 years ago. Or maybe my sadness is because I feel like I let my daughter down.I guess it depends on who gets dumped and who did the dumping. .nothing else it will prepare you for a better situation. Then to be informed that "at least I am a good father! Please explain somebody how this can happen to someone who would have given his life to her. She has left me in mass amounts of debt but I still love her so much, I gave her 4 years of my life and she just binned me and now it's put a gap between me and my daughter as I work allot'I supported her and her son my stepson on my own wage for 3 out of the 4 years we was together she was short for nothing I had everything and now I'm so lonely it's caused me mental illness the lot absolutely heartbroken how some women can just switch off Reply That's just it.I, who got dumped, and keep hoping that she'll take me back, remember many happy moments. " After 22 years together, those words cut me like knife. Some people have the ability to keep from getting as deeply emotionally attached as others.She was not as considerate and said she could not forgive.I believe that was just the eexcuse to get out of the marriage.