Eric Snow denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak".
He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby".
Eric Snow craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Snow rather tense and irritable. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Eric Snow craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge.
Eric Snow makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear.
Eric Snow needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Eric Snow puts up subtle walls and distances himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give.
It is not easy for Eric Snow to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Snow likes it that way.
You're probably right though, what would I know anyway I'm not Afra Am lol.
But maybe there's some truth with what some White people say about how Asians and Africans have similar features to each other in some ways...sounds a bit laughable when I first heard some white people say this but perhaps there's some truth to it after all.
Eric Snow also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Snow gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him.