“It’s definitely pervasive.” have to to be careful of what I say,” Andrew Conru, the founder and owner of Adult Friend Finder, tells me one morning in his corner office high above San Jose. Since he launched AFF in 1995, he’s turned the site into a swinger-friendly empire that’s discreetly mainstream — boasting over 30 million members who pay a month to find “sex hookups, online sex friends or hot fuck friends.” But while Conru has enough millions to retire several times over, he’s giving a rare interview to blow the whistle on the widespread use of sexbots in the business.
“The only way you can compete with fraud is you let people know it’s fraud,” he tells me.
She is not a nympho (Could you really trust a nympho-bot to be loyal to you anyway?
), but rather is programmed to emulate "normal" human courtship behavior in a semi-realistic way. She notices you staring at her and her eyes light up.
The company suffered a massive hack that exposed the profiles of an estimated 3.5 million members — which generated international headlines by revealing high-profile kink-seekers on Capitol Hill, in Hollywood and higher education.
When he saw an ad for the dating site Ashley Madison, which boasted 36 million members and the tagline, “Life is short, have an affair,” he decided to check it out. Everyday, he received more of these come-ons — until he finally said, “Fuck it.” “I’m like, ‘Hey, all these women want to talk with me,'” he recalls. As anyone who’s dated online knows, this is not entirely unusual. “I just figured they’re not interested anymore,” Russell says.
It’s the dirtiest secret of the billion online dating business and it stretches far beyond Ashley Madison.
“They’re not the only ones using fake profiles,” says Marc Lesnick, organizer of i Date, the industry’s largest trade show. in mechanical engineering design from Stanford, Conru is among the smartest and most respected people in the online dating business.
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