If you're wondering why these dating apps and sites aren’t working for you, the reason may simply be your attitude.In fact, if you’re not yet over your ex, aren't looking for a real relationship and/or are being pressured by others to sign up rather than it being your own choice, you're not likely to find success since you’re not at the right place in your life.
And rather than coming off as well-cultured and interesting, you simply look overbearing and long-winded.So you’ve got to the point in life where online dating is an option. You used to think online dating was for weirdos but everyone’s doing it! We said everyone gets rejection, and sometimes that rejection will come from you. If you’re single, then you’ve probably had the ‘Hey, you should give online dating a go – my best friends met online and now they’re MARRIED! Surely this is just part of being an emotionally-mature, rational grown-up? If they’re a terrible person, there’s only one thing to do – fall into a hole in the ground. Rejection Yes, all your friends say you’re good looking, intelligent and funny. And sometimes the reject-ee will get mad, whether you’ve met them or not. And rather than only joining a few dating apps and sites and therefore only being available to a few people, you should put the odds in your favor by signing up for more so that you can increase the number of people in your dating pool.Along these lines, if you want dating apps and sites to work for you, then you have to commit to continually signing in to the app or site, sometimes every day, in order to see and be seen by the greatest number of potential dates.