I always feel like my disability is just hanging out there.
Like, I know men new to dating paraplegic girls, want to ask me about my disability. We made a meeting place and parted ways for the afternoon.
But if I start offering information about my disability, or ask them about dating paraplegic girls, they seem to get uncomfortable. I am having a very hard time of going from one end of the desirable scale to the other virtually overnight.
My ego is shot to bits as I am constantly passed over.
Most men say I’m attractive but are not interested in dating paraplegic girls or dating wheelchair girls in general.
I guess it’s just hard for some men to commit to a relationship with a handicapped girl.
My wheelchair is safer and faster but I cannot stand up to reach things without the leg braces.
Since I don’t have any control of my waist or legs my shorter right leg kind of swings first and my left drags the floor just a little as it swings through. I am used to people staring at my legs as I am almost always in a skirt or dress. Now I even like to show the leg braces off a little.
Sometimes my skirts barely cover the thigh straps on the tops of my braces.
I am a paraplegic, paralyzed from just above my waist down to my feet.
I have been a paraplegic since I was a little girl. My legs are very thin and flaccid, but I still think of myself as attractive, even sexy.