Dating is a skill in itself, and the more you date, the better you’ll get at it. Compete in everything you do.” -NFL Football Coach Pete Carroll Don’t use your bald head as an excuse to be a recluse or for not approaching the hottest girl at the party.
Once you’re in the game, you might as well play to win. The chance to prove his worth, to excel, to win.” -Dale Carnegie “It’s about being the very best you can be.
You’ll regularly encounter friends of friends, co-workers of acquaintances, etc., and of course, plenty of attractive single women. And, attractive women tend to gravitate toward men who are of a high social status, so having an extended group of friends and acquaintances will improve your prospects in the romance department.
Amazon founder Jeff Bezos (right) has been balding since forever, basically.
He has an attractive wife and is one of the most powerful people on the planet.
Hair doesn’t matter to him, it doesn’t have to matter to you, either. Then do a similar self-inventory, but think about the long game instead of the short one.
— and if you lack drive or a clear career path, your options will be limited. On the other hand, if you’re hard at work and climbing the ladder to success, or you’re a younger guy who’s ambitious and determined to be successful, that’s going to increase your appeal with the opposite (or same) sex. In preparing for battle, I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable. Eisenhower, Supreme Commander of the Allied Forces, former US President, and member of my bald hall of fame.
In-demand skills include playing any musical instrument except the tuba, story telling (this skill is an amazing aphrodisiac), active listening (more on that later), poetry, building/handyman skills, and general intelligence/knowledge.
In Dale Carnegie’s classic book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” he asserts that all of us are basically selfish and egotistical. So, instead of trying to impress your dates with your talents and tremendous intellect, compliment and flatter them. Having a plan will help you get where you want to go, faster.
If you don’t have an ultimate destination in mind, there’s a good chance you’ll get lost.
Women value humor in a man over just about all other attributes, both physical and non-physical.
Your bald head isn’t probably something you want to joke about too often, but every once in awhile, making a joke about it will help your cause.